How to Deal with a Clingy Toddler

Trying to survive the clingy toddler phase? If so, you’re probably wondering how to get through it — or if it will ever end. Clingy toddlers are often experiencing separation anxiety, which should lessen with age. In the meantime, support them and be patient. There are ways to make the clingy toddler phase a little easier;  keep reading to learn how to deal with a clingy toddler.

Tips for Toddler “Carry Me” Phase

Table of Contents

• Why is my toddler being so clingy?
• How long does the clingy stage last for a toddler?
• How do I stop my toddler being so clingy?
• How can I get through my toddler's phase of wanting to be carried?
• How do I lift my clingy toddler correctly?
• How can I make holding a clingy toddler easier?

Why is my toddler being so clingy?

Many parents of toddlers report that their child goes through phases of being extra clingy. This behavior can definitely be frustrating, but it’s perfectly normal. 

There are a few reasons why toddlers may become more clingy than usual. They may be experiencing separation anxiety, which is common in children between the ages of 8 months and 3 years, and usually occurs when a child is away from a parent or caregiver that they are attached to. Another reason for increased clinginess may be that the toddler is going through a major developmental milestone, like learning to walk or talk. 

These milestones can be daunting for a child, and they may seek comfort and reassurance from their parents during these times. Or, toddlers may just be tired or hungry, leading to, you guessed it,  clinginess. If your toddler is being extra clingy, try to be patient and understanding. If the behavior persists or is causing distress, please consult your child's pediatrician.

How long does the clingy stage last for a toddler?

If you’re wondering how to deal with clingy toddler behavior, you’re not alone. The "clingy toddler phase" is a normal phase of development that most babies go through. It typically begins around 8 months of age and lasts until the baby is around 14 months old, if not longer.

During this time, babies become attached to their caregivers and may cry or cling to them when they leave the room. This can be frustrating for parents, but it's important to remember that the clingy stage is only temporary. Eventually, babies outgrow it and become more independent. 

How do I stop my toddler being so clingy?

It’s natural for toddlers to want to be close to their parents or caregivers. So while you may be eager to stop the clingy phase, try to embrace it as best as you can. Here  are a few things you can do to help your toddler feel more comfortable when you're not around:

• Avoid giving in. It can be hard to hear your baby or toddler cry, but giving in can make the situation worse. 
• Give them a chance to say goodbye. This can be as simple as a hug or a high-five.
• Set up a special comfort object, like a stuffed animal or blanket, for when you're away. This can help your toddler feel snug and secure.
• Try to keep your departures and arrivals low-key. Avoid making a big fuss over leaving or coming home.
• Try babywearing. Whether you’re at home or running errands, if your baby wants to be close, let them. By using the Tushbaby Hip Seat Carrier, keeping your baby close can be comfortable for you while keeping them happy.

As a parent, always remember to be  patient and understanding. Your toddler is going through a difficult phase, and with your love, support, and guidance, they should outgrow it eventually.

How can I get through my toddler's phase of wanting to be carried?

“Pick me up.” “Mommy/daddy, up please.” These are probably phrases you hear often from your toddler while you’re juggling  how to make them happy and get your to-do list done simultaneously. Not to mention, carrying a toddler can take a toll on your body and disrupt your everyday life.

One way to get through this phase is by babywearing —  and the Tushbaby Hip Seat Carrier can make carrying and wearing a toddler a breeze. The Tushbaby Carrier is recommended by pediatricians, chiropractors, physical therapists, orthopedists, pelvic floor therapists, and spine surgeons for its support for both the wearer and the baby. The Tushbaby Carrier features a supportive seat that puts babies’ hips in the pediatric-recommended  “M” position to support healthy hip growth. It also sits high and tight above your hips, protecting all those muscles, joints, and bones by supporting your back and reducing painful spine curvature. With 4 carrying positions, you can carry your toddler confidently without the aches and pains. 

(Also Read: How to carry your baby without hurting your back)

How do I lift my clingy toddler correctly?

It can be tough to pick up, put down, and pick up your toddler again, especially when they want it all the time. Here are a few tips on lifting your clingy toddler correctly to avoid unnecessary injuries.

First, make sure that you're in a safe position. If you're lifting them from a chair or bed, make sure that your feet are firmly planted on the ground. Secondly, use your legs, not your back, to lift them up. Squat down, put your arms around their waist, then stand up slowly, using your leg muscles to support their weight. 

How can I make holding a clingy toddler easier?

Any parent of a young child knows that one of the most challenging tasks can be simply holding onto them. Whether you’re trying to cook dinner or take a shower, a clingy toddler can make it nearly impossible to get anything done. But there are ways to make it easier. 

Enter the Tushbaby Carrier. As the best-selling carrier on the market, Tushbaby offers a strap-free, ergonomic hipseat that evenly distributes your baby’s weight. With the Tushbaby Carrier, you’ll be able to carry your baby longer and more comfortably, and it’s the ideal solution to constantly picking up and putting down your baby. In addition to its comfort and support, it offers 4 carry positions and 5 storage pockets to stash diapers, wipes, and your personal items.

During the clingy toddler phase, the Tushbaby Carrier can be a lifesaver. It's simple and non-restrictive design can keep you and your baby happier while you pass through the clingy phase together.

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