Tips For Taking a Baby to a Wedding

Weddings aren’t just a big day for the couple—they’re a chance to celebrate and unite friends and family, and even introduce your baby to the mix!

But bringing a baby to a wedding? That takes some next-level planning. Read on to get the scoop on how to handle it like a pro and what to bring to a wedding if your baby’s coming along.

Is It Okay to Bring a Baby to a Wedding?

Thinking about bringing a baby to a wedding? It’s essential to note the bride and groom’s preference. Some roll out the red carpet for kids at weddings, while others prefer an adults-only vibe.

If the invite isn’t clear, a quick check-in with the couple is the way to go. Weddings can be a golden opportunity for big family reunions, and if the couple’s cool with it, your baby might get to meet a whole crew of relatives for the first time. Your aunt might even be miffed if you don’t bring the little one! Bottom line is: it never hurts to ask.

Tips for Taking a Baby to a Wedding

So the couple gave the green light for kids—fantastic! Now, how do you actually bring a baby to a wedding or wedding reception without losing your sanity? We've got you covered with some pro tips and what to bring to a wedding to make the day feel like a breeze:

Plan your exit strategy: Who's taking the baby home and when? Is Grandma swooping in for an early bedtime while Mom tears up the dance floor? Or is your little one staying until the last toast? Figure it out beforehand to dodge any last-minute chaos, and give the bride and groom a heads-up if you and baby need to leave early.
Ear protection is a must: Weddings can get loud. Protect those tiny ears with some earplugs or baby noise-cancelling headphones if you're planning to stay through the reception.
Embrace babywearing: Weddings mean a lot of standing and sitting, so wearing your baby can save your back and keep your little one happy. The Tushbaby carrier is perfect for this—its open-face hip seat design works over Mom and Dad’s fancy outfits and makes it easy for your baby to socialize while you stay comfy. Plus, it comes in tons of stylish colors and fabrics to match your wedding wardrobe! Want to learn more about babywearing? Read our article on all the benefits here.
Pack like a pro: Make sure your diaper bag is stocked, the stroller is prepped, and your carrier is ready to roll. Have everything packed the night before so you can head out the door stress-free. Alternatively, you can ditch the diaper bag and stroller with a Tushbaby carrier, which doubles as both! Pack wedding essentials like diapers, wipes, a changing pad, and extra layers in its five storage pockets, pop your little one on the plush hip seat, and you’re all ready to celebrate.
Set realistic expectations and enjoy: Things might not go as planned when you have kids at weddings, and that's okay! Babies can pick up on your stress, so stay chill, accept help from family, and soak in the celebration.

Remember, bringing a baby to a wedding doesn't have to be stressful. With a little planning and the right gear, you can enjoy the day and make some unforgettable memories.

What Do You Do With a Baby at a Wedding?

When bringing a baby to a wedding, planning and support are key. Having a family member, friend, or partner around to help can make the day much more enjoyable. An extra set of hands is invaluable for feeding and diaper changes outside your usual routine. This is especially important if you're in the wedding party.

Babies might want to join Mom at the altar, but it’s best when they’re with someone familiar and not pulling attention away from the main event. The Tushbaby Hip Carrier makes this easier than ever: its adjustable waistband ensures a perfect fit between different caregivers of all sizes, and the familiar smell can help calm your baby while someone else holds them.

Quiet toys can also keep your baby entertained during the ceremony. Avoid toys with rattles or sounds. And be careful with electronics—one curious touch and you might have Elmo singing during the vows!

Things to Pack In a Diaper Bag for a Wedding

Be just as prepared for a wedding as you would for any outing with a baby. Having your diaper bag ready for the day will help you avoid leaving the party early and let you enjoy the celebration stress-free, so fill it with your normal baby list—but for weddings you can be even more prepared.

Here’s what to bring to a wedding (besides an adorable infant wedding guest dress or suit) to keep you and your baby happy all night long:

Pack enough bottles, snacks, extra clothes, lotion, and allll your personal items. Think of it as packing for an all-day adventure. Bring a ton of diapers too, as ensuring your baby is diapered at a wedding is key for a less stressful day.
No matter how cute that baby wedding guest dress or suit is, accidents happen. An extra newborn outfit for weddings is a must to keep your little one comfortable and photo-ready.
Don’t forget the essentials like pacifiers, baby wipes, and a favorite toy for comfort and distraction.
Snacks can be a lifesaver, especially during long ceremonies or speeches.
A lightweight blanket can double as a play mat, nursing cover, or a cozy spot for a nap.
Take a Tushbaby Hip Carrier as your diaper bag—it doubles as feeding support and can carry everything on this list but the blanket!

How Do I Change My Baby at a Wedding?

Wedding venues can be a mixed bag when it comes to diaper changing spots, so always have a backup plan. Tushbaby’s Portable Diaper Changing Pad is a game-changer—it’s made with sleek vegan leather that’s luxe for their butts, and it folds up small enough to fit in your clutch or pocket.

Whether the restroom has a proper changing table or not, this pad keeps your baby’s tush off any questionable surfaces. Plus, it’s stain-resistant and wipes down for quick cleaning. With its compact design, you can stay stylish while handling diaper duty like a pro—it’s a go-to for travel and fits seamlessly into your wedding day essentials.

Should I Take a Stroller to a Wedding?

When you have kids at weddings, a stroller is a smart move. With festivities lasting all day or night, having a comfy spot for your little one to rest or nap is a lifesaver. Just be mindful of where you park it.

Sitting in the outside aisle keeps the stroller out of everyone’s way and out of the bride and groom’s photos. Plus, if your baby gets fussy mid-ceremony, you can make a quick and discreet exit. Snag that outer aisle seat for peace of mind and a smoother wedding experience.

Should I Take a Baby Carrier to a Wedding?

Weddings can be a marathon for your little one, so a baby carrier is a fantastic way to keep your baby close and calm throughout the festivities. Since sitting in a stroller all day can be tough for a baby—and pushing one around all day can be tough for you—having a carrier like the Tushbaby is a lifesaver for making those special moments with your baby even more enjoyable. Just picture your adorable little one taking that slow dance with you!

The Tushbaby Hip Seat Carrier is the best-selling carrier on the market, and once you try it, you’ll see why. Designed by moms who get the daily grind and know the value of comfort and convenience, the Tushbaby Carrier is all about streamlining life with a baby. It features a supportive hip seat that evenly distributes your baby’s weight, a padded waistband with built-in lumbar support, four carrying positions, and five storage pockets for parents on the go.

And for those who want even more versatility, pair your Tushbaby with The Snug attachment! It converts your Tushbaby into a hands-free carrier for babies 12-45lbs, making it easier to juggle parenting and wedding guest duties with style.

Taking your baby to a wedding doesn’t have to be a hassle. With a bit of planning, the right gear, and a supportive crew, you can enjoy the celebration and make unforgettable memories. So pack smart, stay flexible, and don’t forget your Tushbaby carrier. Here’s to a fun, stress-free wedding day for you and your little one!

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